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Bajju 		Boys!! Give A Thought Now...
Category-Relationships | Published On-July 08, 2008 15:39 | Views-85 | Replies-5
Why do I want to CutLoose on this topic?
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life; One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you; One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met; One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her; One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it. But not many guys understand this... Well... Give it a thought now!!


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How many of you have respect n care for your wife like you do your mother and sister

Replies:

నంద‌ 		Well written and thought provoking. This is a phenomenon in India or may be in the entire Asian continent. Male chauvinism is one extreme evil which goes unquestioned in our system. Its a very personal experience for both the sexes and doesn't actually be checked by the girl and very seldom comes out as a public issue, atleast not from the victim. Thanks for the post. July 10, 2008 07:03

బూ 		what is the age difference between them??? like 30 years? they look like they are from two completely differenct generations. ego...(read male ego) is the real problem here. if you dont have that, you wont have any problem helping your wife out in the kitchen. if your wife boozes, you should be lucky to get some company. you can booze at home while watching movies in your home theatre. now, what kind of a guy doesnt like that??? lol. July 10, 2008 08:42

SangKam 		by the way who is this ""you"" referred to here..... July 13, 2008 14:24

SangKam 		i completely disagree wit u bajju!!!! July 13, 2008 14:25

శ్రీ 		you are right.we need to give time and support to her untill she feel comfortable with others.once she is comfortable then every thing is normal.Even our mothers/sisters face(d) same situations but still we wont learn as the male ego(i assume and again not all) or our circumstances make to think like (any how it is past) now change is happening so it take time as well July 14, 2008 14:02